Editorial - Interviews

Alani "Lala" Vazquez isn't the one to live in the shadows of anyone else's fortune and fame. Lala is very confident in her own talents and is very adamant about making a name of her own. No stranger to Hollywood, Lala has a career that has expanded well over a decade. Lala continues to blaze her own trail and has proven time and time again that she has staying power. As Lala ventures into new territory, there's no doubt that much success will come her way. She can get know her at http://www.IamLala.com (her personal website and blog)

Onetta: You have had a successful career that has spanned over a decade. When it comes to your career, what accomplishments are you most proud of?

Lala: I'm definitely proud of the fact that I am able to be in a position to be a role model or inspire young women who want to be in the radio/tv/film business. I get the most joy out of talking to young women, telling them my story, and hopefully inspiring them to be better and inspiring them to reach for the stars! That to me is really the best part of all his.

Onetta: When I look at a lot of successful people, it's evident to me that they all have something in common; they all have this unbelievable drive and determination. It's obvious that you have those qualities as well. With that said, what drives and motivates you to want more out of life?

Lala: What drives me the most is my son and the example I want to set for him. I've always been independent and I never want to be in a position where I have to rely on anyone for anything. I love having my own and being able to make my own decisions. I want my son to see this and hopefully one day finds a woman who is driven as well.

Onetta: It's no secret that media scrutiny comes along with fame and success. Is it difficult at times living your life under such a microscope?

Lala: At times it can be difficult, but it comes with the territory. It is what it is. Like my mom always says, "You should worry when people AREN'T talking about you." So for me, I understand that, and I accept it. I just live my life and try to enjoy it. You never know when all this could be over. I live in the moment.

Onetta: The industry you work in places a great emphasis on beauty and body image. You are such a beautiful woman and always appear so confident; but have you ever felt that the way that you look wasn't good enough?

Lala: I think all women have insecurities when it comes to their bodies. I'm definitely no exception. I have my "good days" and my "bad days." The important thing is to constantly remind yourself that you are beautiful. Always tell yourself that, even if no one else does. Beauty begins on the inside. Looks will fade, but your core will remain. So place your energy and focus on being beautiful on the inside.

Onetta: What advice would you give to anyone who is battling with low self-esteem?

Lala: I would tell them that they are beautiful. I would empower them by explaining to them that we've all felt that way at one point or another. The important thing is to keep it in perspective. Focus on things you like about yourself. Focus on things you like to do. Take the emphasis off whatever makes you feel bad and focus on the positives. Life at times will beat us all up enough, so there's definitely no need to beat ourselves up.

Onetta: Let's get a little personal. LOL! You and Mr. Carmelo have been holding it down for a while now? What do you love most about Carmelo?

Lala: I love Melo because he has taught me the importance of not taking certain things so seriously. He always has such a calm spirit, even in the face of heavy turmoil. I admire that about him. I've learned so much from just watching him in certain situations. But most importantly, he is a great dad to our son Kiyan. I thank God every night for blessing my son with such a great father. Their relationship is awesome!

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